This is the most important question you can ever ask yourself in life, because it will dictate the outcomes that you receive in life.
What Do You Love?
The Universe Wants You To Do What You Love
It can very well be said that you can determine the outcomes of your life and of your choices by asking this question. For instance, do you want more money? Do you want a better relationship? Do you want a new car? Do you want a new boss?
Well, why do you want these things?
Chances are you want these things, or whatever it is that you might want, because you don’t love what you currently have.
And here’s the problem. The problem is that so many people only want something because they don’t love what they currently have – this is not so much the problem as it’s the natural polarity that exists that helps us to evolve as humans beings. We can experience what we don’t want in order that we might understand what it is that we do want so that we may begin and act on achieving it.
The real problem is that so many people try to improve their lives from this place of “no love”. They are dissatisfied with their jobs, financial situations, living conditions, relationships etc and they want to improve them. They seek new things not out of love but out of desperation. Most people want “better” things because they believe that if they attain them that all of their suffering will stop. The irony is that their perpetual wanting of these things, combined with being out of harmony and not being a vibrational match for them keeps them far away and in the distance suffering in an endless cycle.
Never want something because it promises to be better than what you already have, and then try to obtain it from a feeling place of desperation, hopelessness and disparity. Don’t try to make more money because you are broke. Don’t try to buy a new car while you hate the one you have. You must first acknowledge that you don’t agree with what is currently in your life and then seek to have something new without negatively condemning, cursing or judging what you already have. When you are ready to obtain something new, you must push aside what no longer serves you just as you would push yourself away from the dinner table when you are full and have had enough. Don’t look back at all. Focus on your new love and new passion with happiness, positive expectation and enthusiasm and let it empower you, not drain you or drag you back down.
Polarization is the Key – Positive and Negative
When you are living out a negative situation in life, chances are you are going to stop cold, develop a distaste for it and desire something better. One of the fundamental aspects of living on the Earth in this day and age is that we live in a world that is polarized Negativity by default, or at least that’s a helpful way of thinking about it; it certainly DOES NOT have to be this way. This polarized negativity exists so that we can have FREE WILL. Think about it – if our world could only be a place of positive polarity (or basically a perfect world, where no “bad” would be allowed to occur) we’d have a Garden of Eden, or a perfect world, but we’d have no choice and absolutely no free will, and thus, we’d have absolutely no chance of growing or evolving as Souls or as human beings. We would in a sense be slaves – prisoners in paradise since the only objective of the soul is to gain knowledge and experience which translates into growth.
When a negativity polarity is introduced, then choice and free will is introduced. Being introduced to a negative polarity is something that is not bad at all – only our incomplete perception of seemingly negative (or bad) events, however, is.
If we say that a negative polarity was introduced into our world of positive polarity, then we can say that we lean slightly towards a negative state of mind by default. Looking at the basic survival instinct of any animal can show you this, but at our stage of evolution, we are re-introduced into having a conscious choice between the positive and negative polarities. If you are lucky enough to be aware of this in our current state of evolution then you are indeed a lucky individual.
When you find yourself in a negative situation, or a situation that you’d like to change, let me give you the most valuable piece of advice that one could ever share in order for you to change absolutely anything you want to in life:
Instead of feeling resent, hate, anger, frustration, victimization, dissatisfaction or any other negative emotion towards your negative situation, reach for a feeling of love.
I say this because it’s quite a logical formula. Let’s consider it this way – if you find yourself in a negative polarity regarding your job, for example, the obvious thing a person feels is the physical and emotional burden it weighs on the soul. You don’t like your job, then you slowly begin to hate it to more advanced and serious degrees. What starts out as a small dissatisfaction eventually grows into an all-consuming hatred and outright disdain of it. This is always a gradual process and a process that can never be remedied or healed by giving yourself further to negative thoughts, habits and actions. You can fantasize all you want about changing your circumstances and use the law of
bulls**t attraction to help you, but in the end it all comes down to what you either love or simply don’t love. You can never fix your negative situation by feeding it with the energy of your negative thoughts. Let’s say you wanted a glass of juice, but your current glass is full of water. You’ll never get a glass full of juice by constantly pouring water into your cup. Instead, you must become aware of your actions and understand that you can’t produce a glass of juice until you stop pouring water into the cup. You could, for example, keep pouring juice into the cup even when the water was still in there. Eventually, all of the juice will push all of the water out of the cup and you’ll have a glass full of juice. Life works the same – you can start with a life full of negativity. Eventually you became aware of how your negative emotions and actions produce a life full of negativity so you begin to change your life by pouring love into yourself, your actions and your thoughts. At first, pouring the love into your negativity produces a weird mixture that is somewhere in-between a positive and negative spectrum that eventually gives way to more and more pure love. This is also why polarity exists both positively and negatively – it gives us a chance to understand ourselves, take responsibility for our lives and decide what we want and how to best express ourselves.
Thus, if you want to better yourself in any and all areas, then all you have to do is learn to love whatever it is that you want. Love it so much that all of the negativity is eventually displaced and removed from your inner cup.
Want a better job? Love the one you have now and use that momentum towards a better future. You’ll move from job to job hating each and every single one until you can find love for your work. This will in turn guide you right into a career that you will love and believe in.
Want to make more money? Then you need to love money. Chances are you don’t love it, that’s why it makes you so frustrated and angry. Why do you think people who work directly with money are always the ones who make the most of it usually? They are there because they love money and so vibrationally, money loves them back. Notice that a lot of the people who make a ton of money aren’t always the happiest. They still make a lot, because they love it, but they have other issues to deal with. Their love of money just ensures that they have a lot of it, everything else is subject to the rest of their beliefs and what they either love or don’t love.
Here is something to chew on: what is your relationship with money like? Is it a constant source of disappointment, worry, stress, fear and anxiety? Does it let you down? Does it prevent you from living the type of life you want to live? If so, then you’ve most likely got a limiting belief about money that you need to work through. The problem is not money. The problem is in the belief that you have about money which in turn generates your response and actions towards it, including how well or not so well that you manage it and live with it.
Want a better relationship? People who are in love don’t say this. If you even have to think this thought, then you have A.) no love in your current relationship towards your partner or B.) have a tough time making them work because you have not yet learned how to love unconditionally and without expecting anything. Alternatively you could also have a difficult time with accepting the love of others and trusting others.
Do you see how everything boils down to either a love or lack of it? I want you to think about the things in life you’ve loved. Was it a person, hobby, pet, job or something more specific? I bet you did amazing at it and it treated you the same way. I bet even if this didn’t happen to you specifically, you learned a hell of a lot about it in the process whether you know it or not.
The Sliding Scale of Love
Remember how before I said that a simple distaste of something like your job slowly evolves into a full-blown hatred of it? How many times have you hated your current job, managed to land another (even with more money) and then began to hate that job, too? The secret to solving these types of problems and all related ones is to stop your own personal negative polarity. Consider this scale below:
(I suggest printing this out and even keeping it with you in your wallet or your purse as it is quite handy and serves an excellent purpose)
If you start in the orange zone you can quickly find your way into the dark reds and even the grey area rather quickly if you don’t reverse the flow of your own personal negative polarity. To be clear, you start the downward spiral by typically starting to feel the emotions in one section and then not stopping them – energetically they build up and gain momentum before vibrationally shifting into lower and lower (more negatively charged) states.
There are a lot of ways to stop and reverse this flow. One method is to identify where you are feeling on the color chart and then seek to move yourself vibrationally up “one scale” at a time until you get to the top. With practice, you can move from the deep reds to the purple in just a few minutes even though it won’t be that way at first.
You can shoot right to the top just by feeling love, appreciation, joy and happiness right now. I suggest that you fully explore your emotions while you are in every state and get a feel for the outcomes that these emotions always tend to bring. If you notice that a particular person, situation, group of people or job keep you stuck in one area, then it’s time to find out why, and if necessary, remove yourself from that presence.
This is just your inner way of identifying that you’re in a negative situation and you’d like to move to a positive one. These emotions bring about the same, predictable results. Just learn to spend more time in the higher, more positive states.
When you have found yourself in a negatively polarized situation, you can’t move yourself into a positive one by feeling any of the negative emotions listed on the chart. You can only move yourself up and towards your desired positive result by gradually increasing the amount of love you have towards that thing until you reach the top and the goal that you desire. You will always find the results of your life in perfect alignment with your emotional state and feelings towards them. This is all you really need to know. This is the master key of personal development.
Why Does Love Work?
Love is the language and the structure of the universe. Love binds everything together. Love is the great architect and creator of the universe itself. Love can be felt to different degrees of intensity and so it can produce different results in perfect alignment to those degrees in which it is felt. Think about that. Your life is nothing but the degree of love you feel towards all different things made manifest. To what Degree do you love money, other people, your work, life, your home? Your answer is what you currently have in your reality. No exceptions. Promise.
When you begin to harness the deep feelings of love, joy and passion in your life right now, then you are energetically aligning yourself with the very force that created the universe itself. Since love and passion go hand in hand, it’s no wonder that the most successful people on Earth are the most passionate about what they do. Think about the soccer player who practices every day for hours and hours their entire lives. The guitar players who play for 8 hours or more per day for decades. The universe favors those who find passion and love for themselves and their talents. Since the universe seeks to know and express itself, you will always succeed once you understand that you need to listen to your heart and follow those things that you love.
Love is the language of creation. I’m not talking about the “airy fairy” concept of love, I’m talking about love that is deep and sincere. I’m talking about the love that you can cultivate and feel within your own soul for yourself and the things that you do. We always feel this while doing the things that we love to do the most. There is no substitute for them. A life without passion and a life without love is a spiritually, mentally and emotionally dead existence.
Only give yourself to those things in which you can love unconditionally. Only surround yourself with people with whom you share a mutual love for a common goal with. Only involve and give yourself to others that can offer you equally as much love in return without expecting anything in return for it. Once love is united for a common and virtuous goal, then nothing can stop it.
As they say – Emotion is just “Energy In Motion”. I like to believe that love gives you the most motion possible.
Do what you love. Always.
That’s just another secret of creation